Christian Funeral Songs
40+ hymns and worship songs organized by denomination, tradition, and style
Understanding Christian Funeral Music
For believers, funeral music isn't just about mourning - it's about testimony. The songs played at a Christian funeral often reflect a lifetime of faith: the hymns sung at Sunday services, the worship songs from church camp, the verses that got someone through hard times.
“Amazing Grace” remains the most requested song at funerals (Christian or not) because its message of redemption resonates universally. But Christian families often want something more specific - songs about heaven, resurrection, seeing loved ones again.
The right choice depends on your denomination, the deceased's preferences, and what will comfort mourners. A Southern Baptist funeral sounds different from a Presbyterian one, and both differ from a contemporary non-denominational service.
Songs by Denomination
Different Christian traditions have distinct musical styles and expectations. Here's what typically works in each:
Baptist
Emphasis on congregational singing, salvation themes, and personal faith. Gospel-influenced music welcome.
Common Choices:
Southern Baptist services often feature more upbeat gospel; American Baptist tends toward traditional hymns.
Methodist
Rich hymn tradition from Charles Wesley. Balance of celebration and reverence.
Common Choices:
United Methodist Church has specific liturgical guidelines but allows flexibility in music selection.
Lutheran
Strong chorale tradition, emphasis on resurrection hope. More formal structure.
Common Choices:
ELCA tends more flexible; Missouri Synod may have stricter guidelines on hymn selection.
Presbyterian
Psalm-singing tradition, dignified worship, emphasis on God's sovereignty.
Common Choices:
Many Presbyterian churches use hymnals like Glory to God with approved selections.
Non-Denominational
Most flexible. Contemporary worship common. Focus on personal relationship with God.
Common Choices:
Often the most open to mixing contemporary worship with traditional hymns and even secular songs.
Traditional Hymns vs. Contemporary Worship
Traditional Hymns
These have stood the test of time. Everyone knows them, and there's power in that familiarity.
Contemporary Worship
For those who grew up with worship bands instead of organs. Speaks to younger generations.
Bridging the Generation Gap
One of the biggest challenges in choosing Christian funeral music is the generational divide. Grandma's favorites from the 1950s hymnal might not resonate with grandchildren raised on Hillsong.
Strategies that work:
- •Mix old and new: Open with “Amazing Grace,” include one contemporary song, close with a traditional hymn
- •Use modern arrangements: Chris Tomlin's “Amazing Grace (My Chains Are Gone)” bridges both worlds
- •Honor their actual faith: Play what they actually sang, not what you think a funeral “should” have
- •Ask the pastor: They've navigated this many times and can suggest compromises
Songs for Different Moments
As People Arrive
Something gentle that helps people transition into worship
After Scripture Reading
Reflective, connects to the message
During Photo Tribute
Personal, can include secular favorites here
Closing / Recessional
Hopeful, forward-looking, often more upbeat
Common Questions
What are the most popular Christian funeral songs?
"Amazing Grace" remains the #1 most requested song at Christian funerals across all denominations. Other universally popular choices include "How Great Thou Art," "It Is Well With My Soul," "In the Garden," and "The Old Rugged Cross." For contemporary services, "I Can Only Imagine" and "10,000 Reasons (Bless the Lord)" are increasingly common.
Can I play contemporary worship music at a traditional church funeral?
This depends on the church and pastor. Many traditional churches now welcome contemporary worship songs, especially for younger family members. Always check with the officiating pastor first. A good compromise is mixing one or two contemporary songs with traditional hymns.
What's the difference between a funeral and a celebration of life?
A traditional Christian funeral focuses on commending the deceased to God, with Scripture readings, prayers, and hymns about heaven and resurrection. A celebration of life emphasizes the person's story and impact, often with more personal music choices. Many services blend both approaches.
How do I choose songs if the deceased wasn't very religious?
Consider hymns they would have heard growing up, even if they didn't attend church regularly. "Amazing Grace" and "In the Garden" resonate with many people regardless of current church attendance. You can also ask family members what songs remind them of the person.
Are secular songs allowed at Christian funerals?
This varies by denomination and church. Many Protestant churches allow meaningful secular songs during photo tributes or as people enter. Some are more restrictive. The pastor will let you know what's acceptable in their church.
All Christian Funeral Songs
Browse our complete collection of 53 Christian funeral songs, from centuries-old hymns to modern worship.
Traditional
A timeless hymn of redemption and hope that has comforted mourners for centuries.
Why it's meaningful: This beloved hymn speaks of salvation and the journey from loss to grace, offering profound comfort to those grieving.
Best moment: Often played during the processional or as a closing hymn.
Mahalia Jackson
Written by Thomas Dorsey after losing his wife and infant son, this deeply personal hymn has become the quintessential gospel funeral song.
Why it's meaningful: Its heartfelt plea for divine guidance through life's darkness resonates deeply with mourners.
Best moment: Perfect for processional or during reflection moments.
Traditional Hymn
A majestic hymn praising God
Why it's meaningful: Offers hope of reunion in heaven and celebrates faith
Best moment: Powerful as a congregational hymn or solo performance.
Going Up Yonder
Walter Hawkins
This uplifting anthem celebrates the promise of heaven and eternal life, transforming grief into hope.
Why it's meaningful: A staple in Black Protestant funeral traditions, it focuses on the glorious reunion awaiting believers in heaven during homegoing services.
Best moment: Powerful as a recessional or celebration of life moment.
Soon and Very Soon
Andraé Crouch
This triumphant song anticipates the joy of seeing Jesus and being reunited with loved ones in heaven.
Why it's meaningful: Based on Revelation 21:3-4, it speaks of no more crying or dying. Performed at Michael Jackson's memorial service.
Best moment: Celebratory recessional or closing hymn.
It Is Well With My Soul
Horatio Spafford
Written as Spafford sailed over the spot where his four daughters drowned, this hymn of faith emerged from unimaginable grief.
Why it's meaningful: Despite devastating loss, Spafford declared 'it is well' - a profound statement of faith that inspires mourners.
Best moment: Powerful testimony of faith during the darkest moments.
I Can Only Imagine
MercyMe
Written by lead singer Bart Millard about his father's death, imagining what it will be like to finally see Jesus face to face.
Why it's meaningful: For families of faith, this song processes grief through the lens of eventual reunion in God's presence.
Best moment: Powerful for Christian services, building from quiet contemplation to triumphant hope.
The Lord's My Shepherd
Traditional (Psalm 23, Crimond tune)
The metrical Psalm 23 set to the 'Crimond' tune, famous for its soaring descant. The bedrock of Presbyterian hymnody and the most requested funeral psalm worldwide.
Why it's meaningful: Frames death as walking through a 'valley of shadow' with a divine protector. The familiar words provide muscle-memory comfort even for those who haven't attended church in decades.
Best moment: After the Old Testament reading or during reflection. The congregation knows the words instinctively.
Jerusalem
William Blake / Hubert Parry
Blake's visionary poem set to Parry's majestic march. A secondary national anthem in England evoking fierce resilience and the triumph of building heaven on earth.
Why it's meaningful: Less about personal grief, more about collective resilience and victory. Sends the congregation out on a triumphant, defiant note.
Best moment: Almost exclusively a recessional. The rousing march requires a strong organ and confident congregation.
In the Garden
Traditional Hymn
A beloved hymn about walking and talking with Jesus in a peaceful garden setting.
Why it's meaningful: Offers comfort through its imagery of personal communion with the divine.
Best moment: Often requested by elderly individuals for their own services.
The Old Rugged Cross
George Bennard
A cherished hymn about sacrifice and salvation, beloved by older generations.
Why it's meaningful: Reflects the deep faith that sustained many through life's trials.
Best moment: Meaningful for those who held strong religious convictions.
10,000 Reasons (Bless the Lord)
Matt Redman
A modern worship song about finding reasons to be grateful even in sorrow.
Why it's meaningful: Encourages thankfulness for a life lived while trusting in divine comfort.
Best moment: Uplifting during Christian services focused on celebration rather than mourning.
Abide With Me
Traditional Hymn
A beloved hymn asking for divine presence through life's journey and at the hour of death.
Why it's meaningful: Offers comfort through faith in God's constant presence.
Best moment: Traditional evening hymn often requested by the elderly.
Total Praise
Richard Smallwood
Written while Smallwood cared for his mother with dementia, this powerful song based on Psalm 121 became an anthem of worship and surrender.
Why it's meaningful: Performed at Aretha Franklin's funeral, it's become a signature gospel funeral song.
Best moment: Powerful during worship moments or as a solo performance.
Order My Steps
GMWA Women of Worship
This passionate prayer for divine guidance resonates deeply at funerals as families seek comfort in knowing their loved one walked in God's path.
Why it's meaningful: Initially rejected before being embraced, the song's journey mirrors how grief transforms into acceptance.
Best moment: Meaningful during worship or reflection time.
Because He Lives
Bill and Gloria Gaither
Written during the turbulent late 1960s, this song finds hope in Christ's resurrection as the answer to life's uncertainties.
Why it's meaningful: Christ's victory over death gives mourners hope that their loved one shares in eternal life.
Best moment: Hopeful choice for celebrating resurrection faith.
What a Friend We Have in Jesus
Traditional Hymn
Written by Joseph Scriven to comfort his mother after his fiancée drowned, this hymn emphasizes Jesus as the ultimate friend who bears our sorrows.
Why it's meaningful: Scriven's personal tragedy inspired words that comfort millions facing loss.
Best moment: Comforting during quiet reflection or congregational singing.
Dear Lord and Father of Mankind
John Greenleaf Whittier / Hubert Parry (Repton)
A hymn calling for silence, calm, and the 'still small voice.' The Repton tune is one of the most beautiful melodies in English hymnody.
Why it's meaningful: Its meditative quality provides genuine rest from grief: 'Drop Thy still dews of quietness, till all our strivings cease.' A sonic sedative.
Best moment: Post-sermon reflection or during prayers. Perfect for those who valued inner peace.
Praise, My Soul, the King of Heaven
Henry Francis Lyte / John Goss (Lauda Anima)
Based on Psalm 103, a hymn of pure objective praise that shifts focus from the mourner's feelings to God's sovereignty. Sung at the wedding of Queen Elizabeth II.
Why it's meaningful: Reframes the service from grief to gratitude: 'Ransomed, healed, restored, forgiven.' The full organ and choir descant create genuine majesty.
Best moment: Entrance processional. Begins the service with focus on God rather than loss.
Be Not Afraid
Bob Dufford, SJ
A product of the St. Louis Jesuits that speaks from God's voice directly to the believer: 'I go before you always.' Deeply embedded in American Catholic consciousness.
Why it's meaningful: Reassures the soul facing death that they will not face it alone. The refrain is simple enough for grieving congregations to join.
Best moment: Recessional hymn — sends the family out with divine assurance rather than human despair.
Here I Am, Lord
Dan Schutte
Based on the calling of Samuel and Isaiah. Reframes the deceased's life as one of answering God's call and service to others: 'Whom shall I send?'
Why it's meaningful: Celebrates a life of service. The call-and-response format between cantor and congregation creates communal participation.
Best moment: Offertory or Entrance. Works for anyone who dedicated their life to serving others.
Love Divine, All Loves Excelling
Charles Wesley / Blaenwern or Hyfrydol
One of Wesley's masterpieces focusing on the 'new creation' — asking God to 'finish thy new creation' so the believer may be 'lost in wonder, love, and praise.'
Why it's meaningful: A powerful closing hymn that looks forward to the beatific vision. The final verse transforms grief into anticipation of glory.
Best moment: Closing hymn in Methodist and Anglican services. Strong congregational singing is essential.
Great Is Thy Faithfulness
Thomas Chisholm
Based on Lamentations 3:23 — 'The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases.' A hymn of profound daily gratitude with deep roots in the Methodist and Holiness traditions.
Why it's meaningful: Focuses on God's constancy amidst the changes of life and death: 'Strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow.' Offers comfort through divine reliability.
Best moment: Early in the service or as a processional. Sets a tone of trust rather than despair.
Nearer, My God, to Thee
Sarah Flower Adams / Lowell Mason (Bethany)
Based on Jacob's Ladder (Genesis 28), reframing suffering and death as the mechanism bringing the soul closer to the Divine. Legendary association with the Titanic.
Why it's meaningful: Transforms death from an ending into an ascent. The Titanic association gives it unmatched emotional resonance regarding acceptance of fate.
Best moment: During the Committal or as a quiet meditation piece. Works as instrumental string quartet.
Guide Me, O Thou Great Redeemer
William Williams / John Hughes (Cwm Rhondda)
Known as the 'Welsh Rugby Hymn.' Powerful, masculine, and rousing — frames death as a pilgrimage: 'Bread of heaven, feed me till I want no more.'
Why it's meaningful: The preferred choice for men, especially in the UK. The Cwm Rhondda tune builds to a thunderous climax that fills any church.
Best moment: Opening hymn (processional). The march tempo suits the entrance of the coffin.
It Is Well with My Soul
Horatio Spafford / Philip Bliss
Written after Spafford lost his four daughters in a shipwreck. A hymn of profound acceptance born from unimaginable tragedy: 'When peace like a river attendeth my way.'
Why it's meaningful: Projects deep spiritual maturity. The backstory of its composition makes it perhaps the most emotionally credible hymn ever written.
Best moment: Committal or reflection. The story behind it adds weight that mere melody cannot.
Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring
J.S. Bach
Cantata BWV 147. The rolling triplets provide continuous gentle motion like a stream. Religious but musically uplifting in a major key.
Why it's meaningful: Simultaneously sacred and joyful. The triplet pattern suggests ongoing life and movement — the opposite of the stillness of death.
Best moment: Exit or gathering. Duration: ~3-4 minutes. Works on organ, piano, or as orchestral arrangement.
Blessed Assurance
Fanny Crosby / Phoebe Knapp
The Baptist doctrine of Salvation Assurance in song: 'Heir of salvation, purchase of God.' Transforms the funeral from hopeful plea into confident declaration.
Why it's meaningful: The upbeat 9/8 meter ends the service on triumph. A systematic theology of conversion in lyrical form.
Best moment: Closing hymn or recessional. Its buoyant rhythm lifts the congregation out of grief.
Victory in Jesus
E.M. Bartlett
The most distinctively Baptist funeral song. The deceased has won the final battle: 'I heard about a mansion he has built for me in glory.'
Why it's meaningful: Sung with robust enthusiasm, defying death's somber tone. Frames the narrative through 'Victory' — death defeated.
Best moment: THE definitive closing hymn for a Baptist funeral. Sung with energy and conviction.
Sarah Mitchell
Funeral Music CuratorFormer church music director with 15 years of experience helping families choose meaningful funeral music. Created YourFuneralSongs after losing her mother in 2019.