Irish Funeral Songs:
Traditional Irish Memorial Music
Irish families don't just mourn—they send people off properly. The wake with its music and whiskey, the songs that make you cry and laugh in the same hour, the insistence that grief and celebration belong together. If you're planning an Irish funeral, you're not just picking songs—you're honoring a tradition.
What Makes Irish Funerals Different
At an Irish funeral, "Danny Boy" will probably make everyone cry, and then someone will tell a story that makes everyone laugh, and both feel like the right thing. The wake isn't a somber viewing—it's a gathering with food, drink, and music where people actually talk about the person who died.
"The Parting Glass" closes out more Irish wakes than any other song. It's a goodbye that acknowledges you've had enough (literally and figuratively) and it's time to go. "Danny Boy" is the big emotional one—a parent singing to a child leaving for war or emigration, not knowing if they'll meet again. These songs stuck around because they do what Irish culture does best: name the hard stuff directly while somehow making it bearable.
Traditional Irish Funeral Songs
Most Irish families will expect at least one or two of these. "Danny Boy" and "The Parting Glass" are practically mandatory. The others depend on your family's particular traditions and the person being honored.
Jealous of the Angels
by Donna Taggart
An Irish singer\\
Why it's meaningful: Honestly expresses the envy we feel toward heaven for taking our loved ones.
Best moment: Particularly moving with its Celtic arrangement and heartfelt delivery.
The Parting Glass
by Traditional Irish Folk
Traditional Scottish and Irish farewell song, often sung at the end of gatherings as a final toast.
Why it's meaningful: The tradition of raising a final glass to the departed creates a communal ritual of remembrance and farewell.
Best moment: Perfect for Irish/Scottish funerals or as a closing song for gatherings.
Danny Boy
by Traditional Irish
An Irish ballad of farewell that has become a funeral standard.
Why it's meaningful: The haunting melody and words of parting resonate across cultures.
Best moment: Especially meaningful for those of Irish heritage.
Red Is the Rose
by Traditional Irish Folk
Traditional Irish love song with tender melody about enduring love and the pain of separation.
Why it's meaningful: The simple beauty of this Irish folk song honors deep romantic love while acknowledging the heartbreak of parting.
Best moment: Beautiful for spouses or honoring Irish heritage with romantic themes.
Traditional Irish Funeral Instruments
Uilleann Pipes
Irish bagpipes with softer, sweeter sound than Scottish Highland pipes. Played sitting down with bellows. Considered the most authentic Irish funeral instrument.
Best for: Processionals, traditional Irish funerals, honoring heritage
Tin Whistle
Simple metal flute with haunting, pure tone. Can play both mournful slow airs and lively jigs. Accessible and deeply traditional.
Best for: Any funeral moment, wakes, intimate gatherings
Celtic Harp
Traditional Irish harp (smaller than concert harp) with ethereal, angelic sound. Symbol of Ireland itself. Creates peaceful, spiritual atmosphere.
Best for: Reflection, meditation, celebrating Irish heritage
Fiddle & Bodhrán
Irish fiddle plays both slow laments and lively dance tunes. Bodhrán (Irish drum) adds rhythmic heartbeat to traditional music, especially at wakes.
Best for: Wakes, celebration of life, traditional Irish music lovers
Common Questions
What are the most popular Irish funeral songs?
The most popular Irish funeral songs include "Danny Boy," "The Parting Glass," "May the Road Rise to Meet You," "The Fields of Athenry," "On Raglan Road," and "Mo Ghile Mear." These traditional Irish songs combine beautiful melodies with themes of farewell, journey, and blessing that resonate deeply at Irish funerals and wakes.
What is the difference between Irish and Celtic funeral music?
Irish music is specifically from Ireland (songs like "Danny Boy," "The Parting Glass") while Celtic encompasses Irish, Scottish, Welsh, and Breton traditions. Irish funeral music often features specific cultural elements like tin whistles, uilleann pipes, bodhrán drums, and Gaelic language. Celtic funeral music is broader, including Scottish bagpipes and other regional variations. Irish funerals also have unique traditions like wakes with music and storytelling.
Should Irish funeral songs be sung or instrumental?
Both work beautifully! Traditional Irish funerals often feature congregational singing of beloved songs like "The Parting Glass" or "Danny Boy." Instrumental versions on tin whistle, harp, uilleann pipes, or fiddle create atmospheric beauty. Many families combine both - instrumental for processionals, vocal for participation. Irish wakes traditionally feature group singing and music-making as part of the celebration and mourning process.
Are bagpipes appropriate for Irish funerals?
While often associated with Irish funerals in American culture, bagpipes are actually more Scottish than Irish. Authentic Irish funerals traditionally use uilleann pipes (quieter, sweeter-sounding Irish pipes), tin whistle, fiddle, or harp. However, if the deceased or family has Scottish heritage or simply loves bagpipes, they are certainly appropriate. Many Irish-American funerals do incorporate Highland bagpipes.
What are Irish wake traditions and music?
Traditional Irish wakes are social gatherings before funerals featuring storytelling, music, food, and drink to celebrate the deceased's life. Music at wakes includes both sad farewell songs and lively tunes celebrating life. "The Parting Glass" is the quintessential wake closing song. Wakes create space for community mourning through music, laughter, and shared memories. Modern Irish and Irish-American families often incorporate some wake elements into funeral receptions.
Can non-Irish families use Irish funeral music?
Yes! Irish funeral music's universal themes of farewell, journey, and blessing resonate across cultures. "Danny Boy," "The Parting Glass," and other Irish songs are beloved worldwide for their beautiful melodies and emotional depth. If Irish music moves you or honors the deceased's musical preferences, it's entirely appropriate regardless of heritage. Irish music's emphasis on community, storytelling, and emotional honesty appeals universally.
What are traditional Irish funeral blessings?
Irish funeral blessings combine music and spoken word. "May the Road Rise to Meet You" is the most famous blessing, often sung. Other traditional blessings include "Deep Peace," "May you be in Heaven half an hour before the devil knows you're dead," and various Gaelic blessings. These blend Catholic faith with ancient Irish spirituality, offering both religious comfort and cultural connection.
Should Irish funeral songs be in Gaelic or English?
Both languages work beautifully and can be mixed. Traditional songs like "Mo Ghile Mear" or "The Foggy Dew" sung in Gaelic honor linguistic heritage and create powerful atmosphere, even if attendees don't speak Irish. English versions or English songs in Irish tradition ("Danny Boy," "The Parting Glass") ensure everyone can connect with the lyrics. Many families use Gaelic for one special song and English for others.
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Sarah Mitchell
Funeral Music CuratorFormer church music director with 15 years of experience helping families choose meaningful funeral music. Created YourFuneralSongs after losing her mother in 2019.